I have figured out that certain times of the day are better than others. Nights and early mornings suck. I don’t sleep well and am stiff and sore when starting the day. Late mornings are good, usually because I’ve managed to take a much needed nap. Afternoons are also good because, you guessed it, there’s usually a nap involved. By dinner, I’m starting to tire easily and I feel the pain creeping back in. It’s a pretty dependable model, but if you add a few variables in, all hell breaks loose.
This morning, our in home nurse Lisa came by. She liked the looks of my sutures and the way my incisions were healing. She complimented Stephen on his wound dressing skills and mentioned that there’s a need for more nurses.
This afternoon, we had two doctor’s appointments. It was the first time I ventured outside the house since coming home Friday. Long story short: I pushed myself too hard. By the time we left the second appointment, I needed a wheelchair to get to the car. The evening has been miserable and I don’t have much hope for overnight.
Lesson learned.
There’s a balance you have to find to help you make it through the day. Two appts. in one day this early after coming home may have been a bit much. Trust me , things will improve. Just stay positive and relish in the little things to see you through. You are strong and resilient and you’re getting there, remember that. I still wish I could give you a hug. Love, Sharon and Allen
Rest up today! Enjoy some sunshine on the deck!
Oh no! Take it easy! You deserve some naps and rest! Enjoy them! Thinking of you!
Yes get some well deserved rest. I keep hoping I’ll see a vintage Corvette I can photograph and send your way.
Sending good vibes your way friend!
What a great attitude you 2 have. Keep up the go0od progress!! Sandie Reel
Tomorrow FedEx will be delivering a box with a little sunshine from Italy inside . . . hope you both enjoy. And Jen: “Per favore, rilassati! (Please take it easy!)”
No one is happier that you are home (maybe Stephen) than your mom, dad and sister. We have followed your journey through phone calls, texts and of course this blog. It has been quite an unexpected journey but you have faced it with strength and perseverance. In the words of many “you are a Trooper”. We are all ready for the next part of this journey.
A big thank you to your Rock. He has kept us informed and has done and is doing everything that you need or needed done. His new profession just might be nursing.
Even though we will never meet your Doctors, nurses or other health care workers they have our utmost thanks for everything they have done for you.
Your neighbors, friends and co-workers have been so supportive. It certainly makes us realize how much you are loved and thought of.
Here in Ohio we have had so many phone calls from relatives and friends They have liked the blog but also wanted us to know that they were praying for you, Stephen and for us. Many of these friends from California (your godparents), Florida, and North Carolina have know you since birth. Beth’s friends and co-workers have also phoned her frequently to check on your progress. We know you appreciate all of this as much as we do.
Rest your body and mind. Let your “nurse” care for you. We so wish we could all be there in person but know that we do not need to bring any germs that would interfere with your healing. We are just a phone call away. We love you so much.
Mom, Dad, Beth
Look at that, my (Much) “Older” Friend learning new tricks. You’ll get it all figured out. Who ever said learning was easy? Just one day at a time, that’s all you can do. And if you need to just take an hour or a minute at a time, that’s fine too. Just keep swimming!!! ❤️
You are now the Bionic Woman. You’ve got this. Just remember, baby bionic steps, one at a time…love you, girlfriend! ❤️❤️
Hey Girl! It’s ok! Your body is not going to let you do more than it can. It’s like anything else sister – pain is weakness leaving the body – no pain, no gain!
Naps, naps are good, naps are part of healing… I never napped until I got sick. I had no idea what I was missing! Your body is not only healing but gaining the strength to endure the next part of your journey. Think about a week ago and what you couldn’t do. Keep in perspective of what this could have been.
Your strong will is going to see you through this, you got this and it sounds like all your family and friends and extended family and friends “got your back”
Love you both!
Rest is the best think. We all pray for you! 🙏🏽